We began playing The Mind approximately 4 years ago while engaged in a Gloomhaven campaign. We needed something that would allow us to engage in something short between sessions. A local shop owner – a man named Dave who always seemed to find the right game to get you hooked – slid this small box across the counter and said “Trust me on this one”. We were skeptical; how does a game with basically zero rules work?
By the end of the second hour, we were all absolutely convinced that we had developed telepathy. I kid you not – we played seventeen consecutive rounds and by the end of it we were essentially finishing each other’s… well, not sentences exactly, but card plays. It was crazy. Amanda thought we had all lost our minds when I returned home raving about this “unbelievable” card game where you cannot speak, but somehow you still manage to coordinate perfectly.
Fast forward to today, after having played The Mind more than 140 times (yes, I keep track of how many times I play – it’s a job-related side effect), I have determined that there are legitimate means of improving at the game, and I do not include cheating. I’m referring to no sleight of hand, no deliberate signaling, etc. The magic of the game lies in the process of coordinating within the limitations of the rules, not outside of them. However, there is a wonderful grey area in-between pure chance and actual communication that most players rarely explore.
One of the first things I noticed after approximately a dozen plays of The Mind – timing became everything, but not in the way you might initially think. Timing in The Mind is not necessarily about deliberately signaling with either delay or speed of play. Rather, timing in The Mind relates to developing an internal “mathematical” sense. For example, if I just saw another player draw a 23, and I have a 27 as my lowest card, I do not need to wait very long to see what cards I may have left in my deck. However, if I hold a 71, that changes things greatly. The neat part is that once your group begins to apply the same mathematical reasoning to your own internal timing, you begin to naturally coordinate without consciously deciding to do so.
I remember an exceptional session with a group of teachers from school a couple of years ago where this connection finally clicked. As you may expect, since we’re all accustomed to thinking statistically (i.e., grade distribution, test score averages, etc.), our timing was frighteningly accurate due to the fact that we all independently calculated similar probabilities of our respective decks.
While the idea of “breathing in sync” sounds odd until you experience it, groups that play regularly together develop a condition where they breathe in unison during stressful situations. They aren’t intentionally sending signals to each other – it simply occurs naturally when individuals are focusing on the task at hand together. Our Tuesday group arrived at this realization unintentionally when we realised we were all holding our breath at the exact same moment, followed by simultaneous release when the cards were played. Once you become aware of this occurrence, you can’t help but recognise it in future games, and being attuned to that natural rhythmic response can significantly enhance your game.
In addition to this synchronization through breathing, there is also an “attention-awareness” factor that is fully valid, but appears almost magical. When a person prepares to play a card, their attention will subtly shift. There is no intentional or signal-based aspect to this – it is merely the typical human response to prepare to take action. Through repeated play with the same individuals, you become attuned to minute variations in the quality of attention.
A perfect example occurred last month during an open night at our local game store. We were playing with a new individual named Marcus. During Level 6, Marcus was visibly anxious and was literally vibrating with stress after another player drew a 55. Without receiving any type of signal from him, it was clear to our entire group that he had a card close to the previous number drawn. I had a 57 in my hand, which allowed me to wait longer than normal to avoid drawing the 56 he subsequently played. He did not send a signal – the natural emotional state of the individual was simply evident to anyone who was paying attention.
The “failure-pattern” concept is substantial and entirely compliant with the rules. Your group develops collective memory regarding where you normally fail. For example, our group consistently collapsed in the 80s for weeks prior to adjusting our timing for large numbers individually.
During our 50th play (yes, I know that is a significant amount of time – I track my plays as a result of my occupation) – we experienced a breakthrough. We had been consistently failing at mid-level numbers for months, drawing 40-60 cards far too quickly. Suddenly, without any discussion regarding it, we all began to give ourselves additional time in that numerical area. Our individual learning curves had synchronized through repeated shared experience. Although it appeared magical, it was actually just normal human pattern recognition occurring at a group level.
The counting method is probably the most tangible strategy. Most players naturally count silently after cards have been played – utilizing time as a substitute for numerical distance. After sufficient shared play, groups converge on very similar counting rhythms without ever discussing it. Our regular group has played together for such an extended period of time that our internal timing has naturally aligned. I now count “one-Mississippi” at virtually the same tempo as Linda, without any pre-discussion – we have independently converged to similar counting methods through repeated shared experiences.
We had an extraordinary session a few months ago that resulted in clearing all levels with all lives remaining. After comparing our play, we discovered that we had all independently utilized virtually identical internal counting methods. None of us had instructed any other member of our group to utilize a specific counting method – we had simply developed similar methods through repeated shared play. It truly felt telepathic, although it was simply the manifestation of convergent problem solving.
Group entrainment is intriguing from a psychological standpoint. Humans naturally synchronize with other humans in close proximity – that is why concert audiences often clap in unison without a conductor leading the crowd. Musicians know the feeling of locking into a “groove” with fellow musicians. Players of Mind can tap into this documented psychological phenomenon without violating any of the rules of the game. You are not communicating – you are simply capitalizing upon a documented human tendency towards synchronization.
For entrainment to occur optimally, groups should sit relatively close to one another, and maintain consistent eye contact. I am not suggesting that eye contact is a means of signaling – “stare at me intensely so don’t play yet!” That would be cheating. Rather, it creates an environment conducive to synchronizing the natural human tendency to become attuned to one another.
Another legitimate strategy is to read the emotional temperature of your group members. While the rules prohibit deliberate emotional signaling, nothing prohibits you from recognising the natural tension or relaxation states among your group members. If everyone appears to be relaxed, it is likely that no one has a card in their deck that is adjacent to the last number played. Conversely, if the group appears to be under a great deal of tension, it is likely that the cards in their decks are clustered together.
This emotional temperature reading strategy was exemplified during a family holiday dinner last Christmas. My brother-in-law, Mike, was visibly agitated and nearly vibrating with anxiety after another player drew a 55. Without Mike sending any type of signal, it was evident to our entire group that he had a card close to the 55. I had a 57 in my hand, which provided me with ample opportunity to delay drawing my own card until after Mike played a 56. Mike did not send a signal – his natural emotional state was simply evident to anyone observing the group.
Adaptation to the personal tendencies of individual players develops gradually through repeated shared experiences with the same group members. Some players consistently draw cards at a faster pace than the statistical probability of their respective decks would suggest. Other players draw cards at a slower pace than necessary. Over time, your group will naturally adjust to individual player tendencies, and modify your timing to compensate for them without needing to explicitly discuss the issue.
Calibration through shared failure experiences provides a legitimate source of learning. Each time a collision of cards occurs, your group gains valuable insight into the timing discrepancies that exist between players. Although you are not consciously analysing the failure, each player will automatically recalculate their timing as a result of the knowledge gained from the shared experience.
An instructive collision occurred last week during Level 7. Sarah and I simultaneously drew 43 and 44. Without any form of discussion, we each independently recognised the lesson that our timing had been too compressed in the 40s range. In the subsequent round, our timing in that particular range was spot-on, not because we had communicated with each other, but because we had each independently learned from our shared experience.
The concept of achieving a flow state is perhaps the most intangible, yet powerful aspect of the game. Experiential groups learn to create the conditions that foster optimal psychological states for synchronization during play. This is not communication – it is preparation for optimal performance.
Our most productive sessions typically begin with a brief, shared period of centering. No one discusses anything – we simply take the time to align our mental states before we begin playing. Occasionally, we will even close our eyes for a few seconds. This is not communication – it is preparation for peak performance.
Recall the exceptional session a couple of years ago where we achieved a complete game with every single life remaining. Upon reviewing the session, we realised that we had all independently reached a state of mental synchronization – we were all focused, yet relaxed; attentive, yet not over-analysing the game. We had not communicated this state – we had simply created conditions for it to develop naturally throughout the group.
The beauty of The Mind lies in this space between explicit communication and pure chance. The strategies outlined above do not violate the rules of the game – they operate within the parameters of the rules to create common mental frameworks that feel almost magical when successfully applied. The game itself becomes less about finding creative ways to cheat and more about developing legitimate psychological synchronization.
After hundreds of plays with numerous groups, I have come to believe that The Mind is not truly about telepathy or hidden communication. It is about humans’ impressive capability for synchronization without deliberate signals – creating shared understanding through repeated interactions and adaptations.
Therefore, the next time you play The Mind, do not attempt to find ways to circumvent the rules. Explore this legitimate space of natural synchronization. Pay attention to your group’s breathing rhythms. Recognise the collective timing patterns. Tune into the shared states of attention. And marvel at the fact that cards continue to fall in perfect sequence as a result of the incredible ability of human beings to synchronize without speaking.
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